Conflict is inevitable in a relationship, including in marriages. We often feel stuck when we are unhappy with our spouse, and life can become overwhelming, making it challenging to move forward in a positive and healthy way. Time and experience are needed to heal pain, and it cannot be rushed. Upon reflecting on your past experiences, you will come to recognize that the current overwhelming and painful event in your life right now will eventually become a smaller part of your overall life, losing much of its significance.

“Mom isn’t cool.”

One of my kids made this comment while we were gathered around the dinner table one evening. I immediately felt compelled to prove otherwise and proceeded to share “cool” stories from my life. I’d say, “Did I tell you about the time I . . .” and he would look at me unimpressed and shrug his shoulders. The rest of the family laughed at my efforts to lift myself up in the eyes of my son.

Back in the 1800’s, fraternal organizations were started with the aim of making men better men. The fact is, good guys are contagious.

The apostle Paul speaks of a thorn in his side that he pleaded with God three times to remove (2 Cor. 12:7–10). Biblical scholars aren’t sure exactly what Paul’s thorn was, but I can tell you mine: bipolar disorder.

After I first mentioned in public that I take antidepressant medication, a church member and friend stunned me: “If someone had told me that a member of our church ministry team was battling poor mental health, I’d never have guessed it was you!