Raising Godly Children
February, 2025 | DR. CHERLENE ROBSON
People often ask me, "How did you raise your four adult children to be successful in life, strong in their faith in Christ, and happily married, blessing you with six wonderful grandchildren?"
I feel deeply humbled by this question, knowing that it is solely by the grace and mercy of God that each of them, along with their spouses, believes and walks in faith with Christ Jesus. Now, I have the joy of watching our children raise their own in the ways of the Lord, ensuring that as they grow older, they too will remain steadfast in the truth. That truth is the Word—Christ Himself—who will reveal Himself to them in His perfect time. My prayer is that they will continue this legacy, raising the next generation with hope and purpose in Christ Jesus—rooted in their true identity and committed to building God’s kingdom on earth. Psalm 78:4-6 says, “We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, his power, and the wonders he has done… so that the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children.” Amen!
Raising Godly Children: Standing Firm in Faith in a World of Distractions
In a world saturated with media, false ideologies, and the allure of wealth, raising children who stand firm in their faith can feel like an uphill battle. As parents, we are called to nurture our children in the ways of the Lord, equipping them to navigate life’s challenges with a Christ-centered perspective. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” This timeless wisdom underscores the importance of instilling godly values in our children from an early age.
Whether you’re a parent or a single parent, the task of raising children with Christ-honoring values may seem daunting, but with God’s guidance and practical, Bible-based strategies, it is possible to build a strong foundation of faith in your home. Here are some key principles and examples to help you raise godly children who stand firm in their faith:
1. Model a Genuine Relationship with Jesus
Children learn more from what they see than what they hear. If you want your children to have intimacy with Jesus, let them see your own relationship with Him. Pray with them, read the Bible together, and share how God is working in your life. For example, when facing a difficult decision, openly pray for wisdom and discuss how you trust God’s guidance. This demonstrates that faith is not just a Sunday activity but a daily walk with Christ.
“But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” – Joshua 24:15
2. Teach Them Who God Really Is
In a world that often misrepresents God, it’s crucial to teach your children the truth about His character. Share stories from the Bible that reveal His love, faithfulness, and sovereignty. For instance, when teaching about God’s provision, share the story of Elijah and the widow of Zarephath (1 Kings 17:7-16). Explain how God provided for her needs in miraculous ways, just as He provides for us today.
Help your children understand that God is not distant or indifferent but deeply involved in their lives. Encourage them to see Him as their ultimate source of help and security. Teach your children to love others well, especially those with whom they may struggle to get along—whether family, friends, or strangers. Remind them that everyone is created in the image of God. Above all, instill in them the greatest commandment.
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. ’This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” - Matthew 22:37
3. Create a Christ-Centered Home
A Christ-centered home is one where God’s Word is the foundation. Set aside time for family devotions, worship, and prayer. Use age-appropriate resources to make Bible study engaging and relatable. For example, use storybooks or videos for younger children and discuss how biblical principles apply to their lives.
“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” – Deuteronomy 6:6-7
4. Equip Them to Navigate Social Media and Digital Pressures
Social media and digital platforms are powerful tools, but they can also be sources of negative influence. Teach your children to use these platforms wisely and to guard their hearts against content that contradicts biblical values. Set boundaries on screen time and encourage open conversations about what they encounter online.
For example, if your child sees a post promoting materialism, discuss how true wealth is found in Christ, not in possessions. Remind them of Matthew 6:19-21, where Jesus teaches about storing up treasures in heaven.
5. Encourage Critical Thinking and Discernment
The world is filled with conflicting ideologies that can confuse young minds. Teach your children to think critically and evaluate ideas through the lens of Scripture. For instance, if they hear a message that contradicts biblical truth, help them analyze it using God’s Word.
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” – Romans 12:2
6. Foster a Heart of Gratitude and Generosity
In a culture that often promotes selfishness and materialism, teach your children the joy of gratitude and generosity. Involve them in acts of service, such as volunteering at a local shelter or helping a neighbor in need. Teach your children the principles of wise financial stewardship.
Share stories like the widow’s offering (Mark 12:41-44) to illustrate the value of giving sacrificially.
7. Pray Without Ceasing for Your Children
Prayer is one of the most powerful tools you have as a parent. Pray for your children’s faith, their relationships, and their future. Ask God to protect them from negative influences and to draw them closer to Him. When they face challenges, remind them of Philippians 4:6-7, which encourages us to bring our worries to God in prayer. Encourage your children to pray daily, helping them understand the power of prayer and the importance of spiritual warfare.
8. Build a Supportive Community
Surround your family with a community of believers who can encourage and support you in your journey. Whether it’s through a church family, small group, or Christian friends, having a network of like-minded individuals can provide accountability and encouragement.
“Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” – Hebrews 10:25
9. Celebrate Faith Milestones
Acknowledge and celebrate your children’s spiritual growth. Whether it’s memorizing a Bible verse (make it fun and enjoyable), making a decision to follow Christ, or showing kindness to others, baptism in water or be filled with the baptism of the holy spirit, take time to celebrate these milestones.
This reinforces the importance of their faith journey.
10. Trust God with Their Future
Ultimately, your children belong to God. While you have a responsibility to guide and teach them, trust that God is at work in their lives. Even when they make mistakes or face challenges, remember that God’s love and grace are sufficient.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
Conclusion: Building the Next Generation with Hope and Purpose
Raising godly children in today’s world is no small task, but with God’s help, it is possible. By modeling a genuine faith, teaching biblical truths, and creating a Christ-centered home, you can equip your children to stand firm in their faith despite the pressures of the world. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. God is with you every step of the way, and He has given you everything you need to raise children who love and serve Him.
Let us not follow the example of Eli in 1 Samuel 2:27-36, who failed in his responsibility as a father by neglecting to confront his sons' sins and not raising them in the fear of the Lord. Let’s commit to building the next generation with hope, purpose, and a foundation rooted in God’s Word. Together, we can raise children who shine as lights in a dark world, pointing others to the love and truth of Jesus Christ.
“Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16
Shalom, Peace in Jesus Christ,
Dr. Cherlene Robson
